Our line of Fisherkids spinners gives you some parenting wiggle room. When you need a consequence (positive OR negative), instead of coming up with a consequence in the heat of the moment or the moment of pride, have them designated on the spinner, and simply say, "Spin for it." If your child comes in complaining they will simply die of boredom, simply say, "Spin for it." When it's time for family dinner and you also have to finish up work, clean off the dinner table, prep, cook, and fill the water glasses, simply ask your kids for help with the Dinner Spinner. These are excellent resources to help parents navigate the complicated waters of sticking to and teaching the consequences of our actions.